that's some good stuff to think about, Wany ... each of us has his (or her) own perspective, tastes, likes and dislikes, reasons for participating on the board (or not) etc ...
When I consider what I like best about participating here, I think of my favorite local store ... a large and diverse number of guys go there, some daily, some less often, some only smile and say hello as they enter and browse, or leave with their baggies and boxes of 'gars and some are more like I am, and tend to sit in one of the easy chairs near the window, light a stogie, watch the world walk by, and chat with fellow smokers who are hanging out ... a lot of the talk is about cigars, some is about life in general, and some is about the passers-by outside (one regular even has small binoculars to better observe certain of the passers-by as they get a ways into the parking lot) ...
Wany's point is entirely valid for Wany and may be a great deal like some of the others here ... I, however, would miss the humor and the comraderie that some of the other chat brings if we were to confine ourselves to a discussion of cigars alone ... eleltea, xibbumbero, and SammyDaddy, for example, are guys who absolutely crack me up ... and especiall after his "aging adolescents' comment, I can't wait to meet jjohnson and duke it out with the rubber-band machine guns ... of course, we'll have 'gars clenched in our teeth while firing, just to keep it on the (cigar) level.
I agree, though, that if too much foolin' around began, I'd be gone too ... after all, our enjoyment of cigars is the common thread among us, but all of the other threads of our lives are worthwhile topics too ...
that's just my $.02 worth ... each of you have valid perspectives too ... some similar to mine, some not, some similar to Wany's, some not, some different that either of us ... I just wish there were some way to accomodate EVERYONEs concept of how this place oughta be ...
finally, I gotta admit that I miss e-Chick ... I think she brought a livliness here we don't get enough of otherwise and was sorta a breath of fresh air in our stale-cigar-smoke corner of the world ... thread-jacking and all, I enjoyed her posts ...