Dang Tranny......do I have to start liking you again after that comment you just made. I like that side of you.
Beyder,
Your girl is lovely and posting a photo of her at a "costume" party where the entire crowd is dressed just like her is not bad. Folks will accuse you of 'secretly' posting her photos against her wishes (funny, she's smiling for a digital camera....duh!), folks will accuse you of having low self-esteem, etc. Just let it slide off of you.
Some guys have pretty girls, nice clothes, a good attitude, and an open mind.
Some guys stare at oink photos all day, and criticise "real" oinks (these are the types you're experiencing now....they tend to stare at porn, then go to church and burn sinners at the stake).
If you have a pretty girl and nice clothes you have issues.....that's the way they see you. Well, that and obviously your girl is an adult film star, or a hooker.
You've got a pretty lady, I'm sure she's a sweetie. Just realize that most of the guys (Mraven, VFR, and a couple others excluded), would rather look at 18 year old models with airbrushed bodies than accept the fact that they simply could never get a girl that looked like that (most likely due to their poor communication skills and ego, not anything else).
Keep going. Just post a photo once a week or so....relax.
Remember, most guys and gals on this forum have never left their hometown, and talks of lingere parties, travel, condo's in other cities, and champaigne instead of beer will not go over very well.
Welcome to the old people's forum.
BTW....whatever a guy named Slimboli says to you.....listen. He will not steer you wrong....ever.